Why You Give Until You’re Empty (And What To Do Instead)

If you've ever dealt with mom burnout and wondered why you can't stop giving until there's nothing left, this episode is for you.

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Therapist Dr. Julie Merriman joins the podcast to talk about why so many moms quietly minimize themselves until they're running on empty, and why the idea that "you can't give from an empty cup" is actually a myth, because we do it all the time. We get into little T trauma, why your worth might be tied to productivity, and Julie's five-step framework for coming back to yourself after burnout.

In this episode, you'll learn:

Why moms give until they hit "empty cup" burnout, and why the belief that you can't give from empty isn't true

What "little T trauma" is and why almost everyone has some, even without a dramatic backstory

Julie's five-step framework for recovering from burnout: reflection, a nervous system inventory, a reappearance checklist, a self-return ritual, and daily affirmations

A simple full-body-scan technique to check in with your nervous system in under a minute

Why tying your worth to productivity makes it impossible to just sit and relax

Resources mentioned in this episode:

The Happy Home Ladder — No Guilt Mom's family cooperation system

Dr. Julie Merriman's website

Julie's free Desire Reset Guide

The Best Mom is a Happy Mom by JoAnn Crohn

No Guilt Mom Podcast page

No Guilt Mom on Instagram

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