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Simi & Haze ON: Keeping a Beginner’s Mind & Communicating Effectively in any Relationship
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Simi & Haze ON: Keeping a Beginner’s Mind & Communicating Effectively in any Relationship

Simi and Haze Khadra chat with Jay Shetty about using the influence they have built together over the years and the experiences they’ve had while living in different countries, they are very vocal about humanitarian oppression the world is not fully seeing, continuous learning through books and proper education, and creating a brand that aims to support inclusion and diversity.

Simi & Haze, Khadra also known as the fashion duo called Simi & Haze, are of Palestinian descent, born in Saudi Arabia, raised in London, attended high school in Dubai, and majored in film production & fine art in which they both graduated in the top two-percent of their class. The celebrity DJ duo continues to perform at festivals and has a strong social media presence. They recently launched their very own beauty brand called SIMIHAZE Beauty.

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Speaker 1: Even in school, like we would switch classes pretty often,

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Speaker 1: and I just remember always taking her like english and

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Speaker 1: history tests and exams, and she would take my like

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Speaker 1: math and science stuff up to or in science for example,

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Speaker 1: like the more like I would do biology and she

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Speaker 1: would like do chemistry. And you got away with it.

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Speaker 1: Oh yeah, no one ever found out. No found out.

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Speaker 1: Hey everyone, welcome back to On Purpose, the number one

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Speaker 1: health podcast in the world. Thanks to each and every

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Speaker 1: single one of you that come back every week to listen,

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Speaker 1: learn and grow. Now. I love it when I get

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Speaker 1: to sit down with people that have had conversations offline

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Speaker 1: it with each and every one of you. Today's guests

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Speaker 1: are two people that I am fascinated by. I'm curious

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Speaker 1: to learn more about them today. I admire them for

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Speaker 1: how they show up in the world, the energy they carry,

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Speaker 1: and how they make me and my wife feel whenever

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Speaker 1: we're around them. We got introduced to them by our

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Speaker 1: dear friend Raquel, who also happens me in the room,

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Speaker 1: who be on the podcast very very soon as well.

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Speaker 1: But I'm so grateful that she's in the room because

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Speaker 1: she's the one who connected us Today's guest our Fashion

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Speaker 1: Duo DJ Duo Simmy and Hayes. Thank you for being here,

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Speaker 1: Thank you for having us. This is really rare because

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Speaker 1: we never really interview people are always like, we've never

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Speaker 1: heard your voices, so yeah, we rarely like even talk

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Speaker 1: on our Instagram stories or anything. But we trust you

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Speaker 1: and we love you, so here we are. I feel

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Speaker 1: honored hearing that, and my team said the same thing

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Speaker 1: to me. They were like, we want to find interviews

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Speaker 1: I want to sit down with you, because, like I said,

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Speaker 1: when Raquel introduced us, and we've had a couple of

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Speaker 1: dinners here and there, and we've always had like these deep,

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Speaker 1: reflective conversations, and you both have such a wonderful warmth

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Speaker 1: and positive energy about you. And then I was like,

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Speaker 1: they do have voices, they have one opinions, they have

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Speaker 1: great ideas, and I love hearing that. Why why don't

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Speaker 1: you do interviews? Let's start there is what has stopped

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Speaker 1: you over the years from doing interviews. We're just very

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Speaker 1: selective about who we talk to, especially if it's you know,

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Speaker 1: live like this, We've also done like a lot of

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Speaker 1: like magazine interview stuff where like a lot of stuff

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Speaker 1: has been taken out of context. I'd also sometimes rather

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Speaker 1: have the people who are closest to me and the

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Speaker 1: people who really know us know how we really are

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Speaker 1: and not really focus on outside opinions or something we

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Speaker 1: said being taken out of context. Yeah, that makes a

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Speaker 1: lot of sense. Hey, do you want to tell me

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Speaker 1: what you just told me before the podcast? Because then

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Speaker 1: everyone can have the disclaimer because I was, I was,

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Speaker 1: I was cracking up when you told me this, and

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Speaker 1: I feel like everyone needs to know this. I basically

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Speaker 1: Simmy is like the spokesperson of the twins. I guess

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Speaker 1: that's yeah, so she does more of the talking between us.

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Speaker 1: When did that decision get made? It just happened kind

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Speaker 1: of naturally. I feel like even in school, like we

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Speaker 1: there's like a left brain right brain kind of delegation

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Speaker 1: that we have between each other that comes really naturally,

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Speaker 1: and you got away with it. Oh yeah, no one

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Speaker 1: it because we just thought like why not we could?

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Speaker 1: And then it just we just kept getting away with it. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I kept going with it. Yeah, that's amazing. I love that. Well.

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Speaker 1: One of the things that you know, both of you

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Speaker 1: are Palestinian and we've spoken about that offline as well

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Speaker 1: when we've been connecting. But I wanted to hear about

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Speaker 1: do you think some of the framing that you have,

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Speaker 1: that difference between how you think. Sometimes people may frame you,

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Speaker 1: but then how you frame yourself. I would say, I'm

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Speaker 1: just very curious and interested in learning, Like I'm really

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Speaker 1: big on self improvement and self development. I always feel

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Speaker 1: learn stuff from anyone and from any experience, any book

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Speaker 1: that I pick up. I think investing in yourself is

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Speaker 1: such a huge thing, and I think that we that's

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Speaker 1: a value that we've been taught since we were kids.

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Speaker 1: Like my mom is always like was always like, you know,

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Speaker 1: school and middle school. We were like on every sports

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Speaker 1: team and we still maintained a four point two GPA.

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Speaker 1: So it's so crazy because we actually graduated with the

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Speaker 1: exact same gpa, but what just added up to be

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Speaker 1: the same. Yeah, very strange. Hey, how do you describe yourself?

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Speaker 1: Pretty much the same as what Simmy said. People only

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Speaker 1: get a small glimpse of us, so they don't really

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Speaker 1: get the full picture, which isn't there. I mean, like

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Speaker 1: we said, we'd barely do any interviews or anything, so

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Speaker 1: that's what they see on the surface. But like, obviously

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Speaker 1: there's way more. We're like involved in so many different projects,

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Speaker 1: involved and so many different things, Like are very eager

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Speaker 1: learners and four point two GPA is like ridiculously good, right,

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Speaker 1: so you have to be super smart to get a four. Right,

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Speaker 1: tell me a bit about your parents, because you said

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Speaker 1: there and I love what you said, Like you know,

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Speaker 1: just I think today we have lots of conversations about privilege,

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Speaker 1: down upon. But obviously your parents worked really really hard,

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Speaker 1: or your grandparents and your great grandparents, Like that's how

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Speaker 1: my mom was born in Yemen and moved to London

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Speaker 1: and built a life and then gave me opportunities that

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Speaker 1: they didn't have. Tell us a bit about your parents.

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Speaker 1: Want to hear a bit about your mother and father.

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Speaker 1: I know you post a lot you have family trips,

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Speaker 1: Like I want to know about a bit more about

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Speaker 1: their journey and maybe about their story that you'd be

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Speaker 1: comfortable sharing with us, about how they got to where

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Speaker 1: they got to. My mom she started her fashion she

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Speaker 1: has she has a shop and I think it's I

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Speaker 1: mean it started off as a shop in Saudi Arabia

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Speaker 1: and she started off as a buyer and we started

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Speaker 1: going to fashion week with her at the time to

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Speaker 1: buy for her store, and then the shop expanded and

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Speaker 1: it became, like, you know, it became much bigger than

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Speaker 1: I think she anticipated because bringing a high end designers

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Speaker 1: to the Middle East, to that region was really new,

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Speaker 1: and Hayes and I were sort of, you know, trained

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Speaker 1: in showrooms with designers to create new collections for the

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Speaker 1: region based off of the collections that were already shown

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Speaker 1: on the runway in Paris. We were really focused on proportions, shapes, textures,

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Speaker 1: what is flattering to the body, what's just all those

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Speaker 1: things that helped us develop an eye for like functionality

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Speaker 1: and how old were you when you go to it?

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Speaker 1: We were like, I think we first started going when

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Speaker 1: we were fourteen. Yeah, and I think that really helped

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Speaker 1: us even where we are today. It's like a study,

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Speaker 1: like we've been studying this since we were fourteen, and

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Speaker 1: we started doing our own buying appointments and you know,

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Speaker 1: doing being in showrooms alone. We were like fifteen sixteen,

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Speaker 1: and it was awesome that she trusted us, but I

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Speaker 1: guess we did a good job, so she actually trusted

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Speaker 1: you to like and to come up with ideas on

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Speaker 1: how to make something more flattering to a body type

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Speaker 1: that's not like a model body type. Yeah, and my

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Speaker 1: parents are amazing. They've been together for thirty years, and

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Speaker 1: you know, I think it's it's really amazing to see

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Speaker 1: how in a relationship that is lasting, you have to

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Speaker 1: keep choosing each other and keep healing and doing the work.

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Speaker 1: And I've seen my parents change like since we were

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Speaker 1: you know, from when we were kids to now, they're

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Speaker 1: just such different people, and that's aspirational. I mean, I

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Speaker 1: really hope that one day I can have that in

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Speaker 1: a partner too. Yeah, that's amazing. I love hearing that,

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Speaker 1: and it's it's amazing to see how you know, a

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Speaker 1: lot of people don't want to go on and grow

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Speaker 1: older and do what their parents do, but both of

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Speaker 1: you became so passionate about something that your mother was

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Speaker 1: passionate about. And I love what you said that we've

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Speaker 1: been studying this for such a long time because I

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Speaker 1: think when people think about fashion, and you know, I

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Speaker 1: think anyone who ever sees you guys, whether it's online

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Speaker 1: or when I've seen you at events or whatever, it

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Speaker 1: may be, the way you guys dress and you're fashioned,

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Speaker 1: everything is just like wow, that's so unique. Like, I've

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Speaker 1: never seen that before, and I think that you know,

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Speaker 1: I mean, rather you always feel that way when we

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Speaker 1: see you, guys are like wow, like yeah that we

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Speaker 1: literally going like what, Like it's so unpredictable, it's so unique.

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Speaker 1: And so when you say you've studied something I think fashion,

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Speaker 1: often people who don't necessarily can't appreciate it, maybe like, oh,

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Speaker 1: but it's just clothes or it's just colors, and it's

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Speaker 1: like but actually, when you see someone invent something new

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Speaker 1: start looking at it and saying, oh, there's a real

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Speaker 1: art and a skill to that. Tell us about how

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Speaker 1: that art and skill developed independently and collectively between you both.

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Speaker 1: Because would you describe you both as having a similar

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Speaker 1: sense of taste and style it would you say you

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Speaker 1: actually have a very different How would you describe it?

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Speaker 1: I feel very similar, very similar taste. I think it's

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Speaker 1: inevitable with you know, just our experiences and developing the

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Speaker 1: vocabulary that we have just in terms of like taste

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Speaker 1: and how we see things. We've all talked about spirituality

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Speaker 1: and conscienness before. Do you guys feel that with your

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Speaker 1: connection like is there a conscious twin connection that you

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Speaker 1: guys experience and feel and tell me about where you

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Speaker 1: experience it the most independently and collectively. I feel like

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Speaker 1: because we spend so much time to time together and

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Speaker 1: because we work together and we have like mostly the

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Speaker 1: same friends, we inevitably have like I know what she's thinking,

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Speaker 1: she knows what I'm thinking. So in that sense, I

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Speaker 1: would say we do have like collective consciousness. There's like

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Speaker 1: trippy moments that happen being a twin, Like I feel

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Speaker 1: like only twins will understand this, where like I'll walk

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Speaker 1: into room and Haze will be there and for like

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Speaker 1: a split second, I know this sounds crazy. The first second,

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Speaker 1: what you said, like finding people actually love what they do,

421
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Speaker 1: Like we found people who we consider potion mind masters,

422
00:23:00,880 --> 00:23:03,480
Speaker 1: were like this person like literally is like a food

423
00:23:03,520 --> 00:23:07,000
Speaker 1: scientist and knows how and rather knows which flavors to blend,

424
00:23:07,320 --> 00:23:09,320
Speaker 1: but then having someone who can help us blend them

425
00:23:09,320 --> 00:23:13,760
Speaker 1: effectively has been such a fun process. Yeah who you trust?

426
00:23:14,280 --> 00:23:19,000
Speaker 1: Yeah from across the world. Yeah, exactly, exactly right too. Yeah,

427
00:23:19,080 --> 00:23:20,639
Speaker 1: we can't be there every time. My god, I'm so

428
00:23:20,680 --> 00:23:23,480
Speaker 1: excited to try. I can't wait to share it with me. Yeah. Yeah,

429
00:23:23,480 --> 00:23:25,919
Speaker 1: And I'm sure rather he's excited to try to make

430
00:23:26,000 --> 00:23:28,040
Speaker 1: up too, So it's going to be a good and

431
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Speaker 1: I'm sure you'll figure out something for me to try to.

432
00:23:30,680 --> 00:23:33,280
Speaker 1: The lip bomb sounds great, Like a lip bomb sounds great.

433
00:23:33,320 --> 00:23:37,960
Speaker 1: I definitely. Yeah. Both of you've talked today about like

434
00:23:38,000 --> 00:23:42,919
Speaker 1: how you love learning and you're curious and you're always

435
00:23:42,960 --> 00:23:45,000
Speaker 1: trying your best in whatever it weigh is to be

436
00:23:45,280 --> 00:23:46,840
Speaker 1: to be open to stuff. I want to know what's

437
00:23:46,880 --> 00:23:49,880
Speaker 1: something recently that you've both been trying to learn more

438
00:23:49,920 --> 00:23:52,359
Speaker 1: about this year or in the last twelve months or

439
00:23:52,359 --> 00:23:55,000
Speaker 1: even recently, Like what's been something that you think has

440
00:23:55,040 --> 00:23:59,679
Speaker 1: been sparking your curiosity individually? Like, what's what's been that

441
00:23:59,720 --> 00:24:02,120
Speaker 1: thing it's been like want to learn a bit more

442
00:24:02,119 --> 00:24:04,680
Speaker 1: about that this? Yeah, I'm just gonna go I'm gonna

443
00:24:04,680 --> 00:24:06,680
Speaker 1: answer this question from like the last book I read

444
00:24:06,760 --> 00:24:11,400
Speaker 1: totally because I read a lot of books and they're

445
00:24:11,400 --> 00:24:15,360
Speaker 1: all on different topics. Like I just reread The Four

446
00:24:15,400 --> 00:24:19,000
Speaker 1: Agreements and then at the same time was reading On Palestine,

447
00:24:19,040 --> 00:24:26,840
Speaker 1: the Noam Chomsky Ellen Pape book. This incredible physicist Carlos Rovelli,

448
00:24:27,760 --> 00:24:32,520
Speaker 1: and he is amazing because he talks about physics from

449
00:24:32,560 --> 00:24:41,400
Speaker 1: a very poetic perspective. And I'm really into allegories, especially

450
00:24:41,440 --> 00:24:46,400
Speaker 1: in topics that are as complex as physics, and he

451
00:24:46,520 --> 00:24:50,840
Speaker 1: makes it so easy to understand, because you know, physics

452
00:24:50,920 --> 00:24:55,240
Speaker 1: is like from like the smallest atom, how things are created,

453
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Speaker 1: and I'm really interested in creation. I think reading books

454
00:25:01,720 --> 00:25:05,200
Speaker 1: on like different subjects help my mind kind of put

455
00:25:05,240 --> 00:25:08,960
Speaker 1: things together. I always remember when Steve Jobs said creativity

456
00:25:09,080 --> 00:25:11,760
Speaker 1: is just connecting things. In the beginning, I was like,

457
00:25:11,800 --> 00:25:13,760
Speaker 1: I need to just focus on one book, you know,

458
00:25:13,800 --> 00:25:16,000
Speaker 1: like I need to just do the one book. But

459
00:25:16,160 --> 00:25:19,560
Speaker 1: I just like started embracing the fact that I'm yeah,

460
00:25:19,640 --> 00:25:22,239
Speaker 1: we like jumping around. I just jump around a lot

461
00:25:22,280 --> 00:25:25,320
Speaker 1: from book to book, and I think it informs informs

462
00:25:25,400 --> 00:25:31,760
Speaker 1: my intellect and a more creative way. But yeah, On

463
00:25:31,800 --> 00:25:35,520
Speaker 1: Palestine is like a really important book on the subject,

464
00:25:36,560 --> 00:25:39,080
Speaker 1: and I also read this amazing book called The Way

465
00:25:39,119 --> 00:25:43,120
Speaker 1: of the Spring by Ben Aharon Reich that is about

466
00:25:43,160 --> 00:25:49,960
Speaker 1: the situation in Palestine, but mostly through anecdotes with people

467
00:25:50,000 --> 00:25:52,960
Speaker 1: who live there, like Palestinians who live in the West Bank.

468
00:25:55,119 --> 00:25:57,320
Speaker 1: I love both those books on the subject, so if

469
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Speaker 1: you're looking to learn more. But I'm a big Noam

470
00:26:02,280 --> 00:26:06,360
Speaker 1: Chomsky fan. Yeah, linguistics hero, and I think something that's

471
00:26:06,400 --> 00:26:10,000
Speaker 1: really important that he brings up in that book is

472
00:26:10,000 --> 00:26:15,439
Speaker 1: how the language used around Palestine and the situation in

473
00:26:15,480 --> 00:26:21,520
Speaker 1: Palestine sort of has perpetuated the cycle of ineffective debate

474
00:26:21,920 --> 00:26:24,879
Speaker 1: that you know, using terms like the peace process or

475
00:26:24,920 --> 00:26:29,720
Speaker 1: negotiations or both sides. Words like that or expressions like that,

476
00:26:29,760 --> 00:26:33,639
Speaker 1: they perpetuate the sloop of what Elin Pape calls a

477
00:26:33,720 --> 00:26:39,280
Speaker 1: conceptual paralysis, and it's it's a really ineffective way of

478
00:26:40,320 --> 00:26:45,480
Speaker 1: talking about the situation. You know, terms like decolonization, regime change, apartheid,

479
00:26:45,600 --> 00:26:48,960
Speaker 1: ethnic lensing, those are the terms that are conducive to

480
00:26:49,040 --> 00:26:51,920
Speaker 1: real change. And I think it's so exciting to see

481
00:26:51,960 --> 00:26:56,520
Speaker 1: that finally the world is waking up and using that

482
00:26:56,920 --> 00:27:04,280
Speaker 1: those terminologies to talk about the situation in Palestine. Yeah,

483
00:27:04,320 --> 00:27:06,040
Speaker 1: that's such a great answer. I love that. I'm glad.

484
00:27:06,080 --> 00:27:09,520
Speaker 1: I love getting book recommendations, and so you've you've given

485
00:27:09,600 --> 00:27:12,400
Speaker 1: us a ton of great ones. There. Don Miguel Ruiz

486
00:27:12,440 --> 00:27:14,720
Speaker 1: has actually come in the podcast into from oh my god,

487
00:27:15,440 --> 00:27:18,359
Speaker 1: I need to be here. I figured that we'll figure

488
00:27:18,400 --> 00:27:21,359
Speaker 1: that out. I'll let you guys know. But but also

489
00:27:21,400 --> 00:27:25,119
Speaker 1: like when you know obviously, when why is learning about

490
00:27:25,280 --> 00:27:28,080
Speaker 1: or your heritage been so important to you and also

491
00:27:28,119 --> 00:27:30,479
Speaker 1: sharing about it too, And you know, I know that

492
00:27:30,480 --> 00:27:35,119
Speaker 1: when we connected, both of you shared so wonderfully and

493
00:27:35,160 --> 00:27:38,639
Speaker 1: also just you're both so what's the right word. I

494
00:27:38,640 --> 00:27:41,000
Speaker 1: don't want I want to say this. You're both so

495
00:27:42,400 --> 00:27:44,760
Speaker 1: curated and elegant with your words as well when you're

496
00:27:44,760 --> 00:27:47,760
Speaker 1: writing about something like you're not you're not being cautious

497
00:27:47,880 --> 00:27:52,200
Speaker 1: or you're not being careful, You're just being thoughtful. And

498
00:27:52,280 --> 00:27:54,560
Speaker 1: so tell me about why it's been so interesting for

499
00:27:54,600 --> 00:27:56,840
Speaker 1: both of you to learn about your heritage and to

500
00:27:56,920 --> 00:28:00,439
Speaker 1: learn about what's happening and how is that in formed

501
00:28:00,520 --> 00:28:03,080
Speaker 1: some of the work you've been dying. Being Middle Eastern

502
00:28:03,240 --> 00:28:07,440
Speaker 1: is inextricable to how we are and how we see

503
00:28:07,480 --> 00:28:12,080
Speaker 1: the world, and in so many you know, anybody who's

504
00:28:12,119 --> 00:28:15,360
Speaker 1: come across Middle Eastern culture. You know, it's a hotbed

505
00:28:15,400 --> 00:28:21,960
Speaker 1: of literature, architecture, mysticism. You know, there's a lot of

506
00:28:22,080 --> 00:28:30,080
Speaker 1: incredible values, generosity, understanding, loyalty, like there's that those values

507
00:28:30,119 --> 00:28:33,480
Speaker 1: are just paradigmatic of Arab culture wherever you find it

508
00:28:33,520 --> 00:28:38,680
Speaker 1: in the world. And learning about our culture, and I

509
00:28:38,720 --> 00:28:44,320
Speaker 1: think even talking on Palestine on our platform, I feel

510
00:28:44,400 --> 00:28:47,080
Speaker 1: lucky because we are Palestinians, so in some ways we

511
00:28:47,120 --> 00:28:49,880
Speaker 1: have carte blanche to talk about it, and people are

512
00:28:49,960 --> 00:28:52,600
Speaker 1: not going to criticize us the way that they would

513
00:28:52,600 --> 00:28:58,200
Speaker 1: criticize somebody who's not Palestinian. But I think we do

514
00:28:58,280 --> 00:29:02,760
Speaker 1: have a responsibility to highlights people that, you know, the

515
00:29:02,840 --> 00:29:07,520
Speaker 1: situation in Palestine isn't it isn't a new situation. It's

516
00:29:08,240 --> 00:29:10,880
Speaker 1: a story of it's not a new story. Like it's

517
00:29:10,920 --> 00:29:15,000
Speaker 1: a story of colonialism and dispossession and it's happened in

518
00:29:15,080 --> 00:29:18,240
Speaker 1: history over and over and over again. You know, European

519
00:29:18,280 --> 00:29:22,360
Speaker 1: settlers coming to a foreign land, expelling or committing genocide

520
00:29:22,360 --> 00:29:25,520
Speaker 1: against the indigenous people. But when you talk about it

521
00:29:25,760 --> 00:29:29,120
Speaker 1: in terms of Palestine, they make it seem just like

522
00:29:29,120 --> 00:29:34,120
Speaker 1: like this crazy, multifaceted, complex issue and anything that any

523
00:29:34,120 --> 00:29:38,200
Speaker 1: criticism against it is cassiated as anti semitic, and I

524
00:29:38,240 --> 00:29:42,880
Speaker 1: think that's where a lot of the the tension comes in.

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00:29:42,960 --> 00:29:45,520
Speaker 1: It's like anything you say is going to be labeled

526
00:29:45,520 --> 00:29:50,120
Speaker 1: anti Semitic. But that's what the mainstream media wants you

527
00:29:50,320 --> 00:29:55,600
Speaker 1: to believe because they, you know, the whole function of

528
00:29:55,640 --> 00:29:59,520
Speaker 1: the media is to control your focus. And you know,

529
00:29:59,520 --> 00:30:02,920
Speaker 1: they don't you to be concerned over the lives of

530
00:30:03,120 --> 00:30:05,600
Speaker 1: ordinary people. They want you to be you. They want

531
00:30:05,600 --> 00:30:07,880
Speaker 1: you to focus on whether this person is anti Semitic,

532
00:30:08,560 --> 00:30:11,840
Speaker 1: and that's like the crucial value of the media. And

533
00:30:11,880 --> 00:30:14,320
Speaker 1: I think engaging in a a little bit of critical thinking

534
00:30:14,400 --> 00:30:18,400
Speaker 1: takes you out of that cheap kind of like audience

535
00:30:19,640 --> 00:30:23,400
Speaker 1: that are sort of passive participants in the media, which

536
00:30:23,840 --> 00:30:28,120
Speaker 1: Walter Lippmann calls the bewildered Hurd. I love that term.

537
00:30:28,320 --> 00:30:30,200
Speaker 1: But yeah, all it takes is a little bit of

538
00:30:30,200 --> 00:30:34,080
Speaker 1: critical thinking and looking at the Jewish scholars like look

539
00:30:34,200 --> 00:30:37,320
Speaker 1: like listen to listen. I always tell my Jewish friends,

540
00:30:37,320 --> 00:30:41,280
Speaker 1: like I've had so many conversations with them about Palestine,

541
00:30:41,280 --> 00:30:43,920
Speaker 1: and I always say, listen to your scholars. There's some

542
00:30:43,960 --> 00:30:49,240
Speaker 1: of my favorites, you know, Noam Chomsky, Norman Finkelstein, Urie Davis,

543
00:30:49,320 --> 00:30:53,360
Speaker 1: Gabor Mattei, Stephen Silda. There's so many amazing Jewish scholars

544
00:30:53,720 --> 00:30:58,000
Speaker 1: who speak on the situation in Palestine. They will show

545
00:30:58,040 --> 00:31:00,840
Speaker 1: you the indoctrination that a lot of people have been

546
00:31:00,880 --> 00:31:05,680
Speaker 1: through growing up, you know, seeing Paltign in a certain way,

547
00:31:05,760 --> 00:31:09,480
Speaker 1: seeing Palastinians in a certain way, and yeah, teaching them

548
00:31:09,480 --> 00:31:14,120
Speaker 1: to relearn and engage in the critical thinking requires to

549
00:31:15,240 --> 00:31:17,800
Speaker 1: see the world as it is. Thank you for sharing that.

550
00:31:17,880 --> 00:31:22,880
Speaker 1: And you know, I just love what I really appreciate

551
00:31:22,880 --> 00:31:26,880
Speaker 1: about both of you. And I see this obviously based

552
00:31:26,920 --> 00:31:29,400
Speaker 1: on some of the conversations we've had, but also from

553
00:31:29,400 --> 00:31:32,600
Speaker 1: following you guys, Like, there's just so much thought and

554
00:31:32,760 --> 00:31:36,720
Speaker 1: research and reading and thinking happening behind the scenes that

555
00:31:36,760 --> 00:31:39,000
Speaker 1: people may not be aware of. And I think if

556
00:31:39,000 --> 00:31:40,600
Speaker 1: something that we can all learn is what you just

557
00:31:40,680 --> 00:31:44,000
Speaker 1: rightly said, is the skill of critical thinking and the

558
00:31:44,120 --> 00:31:48,160
Speaker 1: skill of questioning without being judgmental, without having to put

559
00:31:48,160 --> 00:31:51,000
Speaker 1: things in a box, without division. And I think often

560
00:31:51,040 --> 00:31:53,000
Speaker 1: we think those skills come together. We think, if you're

561
00:31:53,000 --> 00:31:55,360
Speaker 1: a critical thinker, you have to be able to like

562
00:31:56,000 --> 00:31:59,040
Speaker 1: divide and segregate, whereas actually, if you're a critical thinker,

563
00:31:59,080 --> 00:32:02,320
Speaker 1: you can actually find places for everything to make sense.

564
00:32:02,360 --> 00:32:05,520
Speaker 1: And so I appreciate what you've just shared with us

565
00:32:05,600 --> 00:32:08,640
Speaker 1: from the perspective of, hey, guys, this is this is

566
00:32:08,680 --> 00:32:10,080
Speaker 1: what we need to be thinking about. This is the

567
00:32:10,160 --> 00:32:12,640
Speaker 1: kind of stuff we need to be questioning. Yeah does

568
00:32:12,680 --> 00:32:15,600
Speaker 1: that Yeah? Yeah, And I think it does take a

569
00:32:15,600 --> 00:32:20,800
Speaker 1: lot of international pressure to change the situation, and it's

570
00:32:20,840 --> 00:32:24,320
Speaker 1: awesome to see that now. You know, there's like the

571
00:32:24,440 --> 00:32:28,800
Speaker 1: BDS movement, it's really making a difference. There's like Israel

572
00:32:28,840 --> 00:32:32,800
Speaker 1: Apartheid Week across campuses that started off in Canada and

573
00:32:32,880 --> 00:32:41,800
Speaker 1: now it's like the biggest um sort of activist week, yeah,

574
00:32:41,880 --> 00:32:48,400
Speaker 1: campaign on the situation. And then there's a lot of infographics,

575
00:32:48,440 --> 00:32:51,800
Speaker 1: there's reading, there's like just so much information. And when

576
00:32:51,840 --> 00:32:54,080
Speaker 1: my friends come up to me and they, you know,

577
00:32:54,120 --> 00:32:58,200
Speaker 1: they asked me about it, especially when it was happening,

578
00:32:58,400 --> 00:33:03,080
Speaker 1: when like a couple of months ago, it was really

579
00:33:03,120 --> 00:33:07,040
Speaker 1: emotional for me to like even talk about because those

580
00:33:07,120 --> 00:33:08,800
Speaker 1: kids that you see in the videos they look like

581
00:33:08,880 --> 00:33:14,200
Speaker 1: my cousins. Like it's just it's heartbreaking. So you know,

582
00:33:14,320 --> 00:33:16,520
Speaker 1: I was always encouraging my friends, like I'll talk to

583
00:33:16,560 --> 00:33:19,720
Speaker 1: you about it, but like go online and do the research.

584
00:33:19,920 --> 00:33:25,600
Speaker 1: It's right there, and I think it's it's hard to

585
00:33:25,720 --> 00:33:28,640
Speaker 1: go and look at yourself and look at what you've

586
00:33:28,720 --> 00:33:31,800
Speaker 1: learned and say, oh, maybe I wasn't, you know, taught

587
00:33:32,800 --> 00:33:36,320
Speaker 1: what the truth is. And I've I've had direct experiences

588
00:33:36,320 --> 00:33:40,280
Speaker 1: with this. Like I went to USC and studied film,

589
00:33:40,320 --> 00:33:43,240
Speaker 1: but one of my elective classes was Middle Eastern studies,

590
00:33:43,600 --> 00:33:47,480
Speaker 1: and I remember my professor was Canadian. She studied her

591
00:33:47,600 --> 00:33:50,720
Speaker 1: She studied Middle Eastern studies her whole life, she was

592
00:33:50,760 --> 00:33:54,120
Speaker 1: a PhD. There was like a quiz happening that day,

593
00:33:54,120 --> 00:33:58,080
Speaker 1: and I remember, like we were talking about Israel Palestine,

594
00:33:58,680 --> 00:34:02,320
Speaker 1: and one of the one of my classmates, was like

595
00:34:03,040 --> 00:34:05,560
Speaker 1: razor hand. She was like, oh, well, what if I

596
00:34:05,560 --> 00:34:08,759
Speaker 1: don't believe that this is what happened, will I get

597
00:34:08,840 --> 00:34:12,680
Speaker 1: the question wrong? And my teacher was like, that's what happened,

598
00:34:12,680 --> 00:34:17,160
Speaker 1: that's history, you know. Like that interaction was just so

599
00:34:17,200 --> 00:34:20,840
Speaker 1: emblematic of the indoctrination that kids go through. Once you

600
00:34:20,920 --> 00:34:24,719
Speaker 1: look at what's happening over there through colonial perspective, you

601
00:34:24,719 --> 00:34:27,560
Speaker 1: can no longer hide behind the claim of complexity or

602
00:34:27,560 --> 00:34:31,879
Speaker 1: anti semitism or anything else. It is just is what

603
00:34:31,920 --> 00:34:36,160
Speaker 1: it is. And it's a humanitarian crisis, and we have

604
00:34:36,239 --> 00:34:40,680
Speaker 1: a responsibility to affect change. It's really cool to be

605
00:34:40,719 --> 00:34:44,440
Speaker 1: able to help in any way. And when people, you know,

606
00:34:44,960 --> 00:34:47,799
Speaker 1: say like, oh, like influence, you're an influencer, you're this

607
00:34:48,080 --> 00:34:50,680
Speaker 1: or that, it's like, I don't even get offended by

608
00:34:50,719 --> 00:34:54,640
Speaker 1: that term, because you know, there's a deeper function within

609
00:34:54,760 --> 00:34:57,080
Speaker 1: the term influencer, and that's that you have a voice

610
00:34:57,280 --> 00:34:59,399
Speaker 1: and that people will listen to you, and I thank

611
00:34:59,440 --> 00:35:01,319
Speaker 1: you for you and your platform in that way. It's

612
00:35:01,400 --> 00:35:04,440
Speaker 1: you know, it's always it's so wonderful to be around

613
00:35:04,520 --> 00:35:07,880
Speaker 1: purposeful individuals and have purposeful friends doing things that are

614
00:35:07,920 --> 00:35:11,040
Speaker 1: meaningful to them and serving and helping, especially when it

615
00:35:11,040 --> 00:35:13,920
Speaker 1: comes to children. I feel like children's one thing that

616
00:35:13,960 --> 00:35:15,680
Speaker 1: I hope that no one in the world can disagree

617
00:35:15,680 --> 00:35:20,760
Speaker 1: on that you know, requires nurturing, requires love, requires the basics.

618
00:35:20,560 --> 00:35:25,000
Speaker 1: It's just basic necessity. Because actually, in that Ben Aaron

619
00:35:25,040 --> 00:35:27,840
Speaker 1: Reich book The Way of the Spring, something that really

620
00:35:27,880 --> 00:35:32,200
Speaker 1: like caught me off guard was this, like there was

621
00:35:32,239 --> 00:35:35,000
Speaker 1: this character in the book that just kept getting charged

622
00:35:35,520 --> 00:35:38,120
Speaker 1: for no reason and being put in jail for no reason.

623
00:35:39,080 --> 00:35:43,319
Speaker 1: And he came out of jail and he was asked like, oh,

624
00:35:43,400 --> 00:35:47,240
Speaker 1: so do you miss anything about your experience in prison,

625
00:35:47,320 --> 00:35:49,960
Speaker 1: like as a joke, and he was like, actually, prison

626
00:35:50,040 --> 00:35:53,319
Speaker 1: soul virtue was the water pressure, Like I could take

627
00:35:53,360 --> 00:35:56,720
Speaker 1: a good shower. Yeah, And it's just crazy how something

628
00:35:56,760 --> 00:36:01,200
Speaker 1: so basic as taking a shower is possible Yeah in

629
00:36:02,719 --> 00:36:06,919
Speaker 1: the West Bank and Gaza. Yeah, yeah, because they only

630
00:36:06,960 --> 00:36:10,960
Speaker 1: really have twenty percent access of the Mountain aquifer that's

631
00:36:11,000 --> 00:36:15,399
Speaker 1: literally in Gaza. So yeah, basic necessities. I mean, how

632
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Speaker 1: many people don't have? Yeah? Yeah, So anyone who's listening

633
00:36:19,560 --> 00:36:24,719
Speaker 1: right now. Raquel, our dear friend who introduced us, she's

634
00:36:24,719 --> 00:36:26,560
Speaker 1: sitting here and she was sharing in a really important

635
00:36:26,600 --> 00:36:29,239
Speaker 1: reflection that I can't articulate quite as well as she

636
00:36:29,320 --> 00:36:33,080
Speaker 1: did because it came from her heart. Yes, exactly, that's

637
00:36:33,080 --> 00:36:34,920
Speaker 1: what I'm saying. But I'm going to repeat what Raquel

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00:36:35,040 --> 00:36:37,279
Speaker 1: was saying that And this is what I'm hoping that

639
00:36:37,280 --> 00:36:39,239
Speaker 1: people are going to get from this episode. Like I

640
00:36:39,280 --> 00:36:41,480
Speaker 1: think that's the point, Like I think what Raquel just

641
00:36:41,520 --> 00:36:45,040
Speaker 1: said is what I'm genuinely hoping. Are people going to

642
00:36:45,120 --> 00:36:47,680
Speaker 1: get what people are going to get from this conversation

643
00:36:48,280 --> 00:36:51,080
Speaker 1: that they're going to see two people that we get

644
00:36:51,120 --> 00:36:54,520
Speaker 1: a very limited view on all ideas upon. But then

645
00:36:54,680 --> 00:36:59,359
Speaker 1: today we've got to realize just how broad your experiences are,

646
00:37:00,120 --> 00:37:03,640
Speaker 1: your life experience in life story are from Raquel was saying,

647
00:37:03,640 --> 00:37:07,680
Speaker 1: you know, born in Saudi Arabia, you've studied in London,

648
00:37:07,800 --> 00:37:11,160
Speaker 1: in Dubai, in la You've had the experience of music,

649
00:37:11,160 --> 00:37:14,480
Speaker 1: a fashion of neuroscience, Like who brings those three things together?

650
00:37:14,560 --> 00:37:17,839
Speaker 1: And the reason why you're such tastemakers is because you're

651
00:37:17,880 --> 00:37:22,160
Speaker 1: global citizens and you live with a global heart. And

652
00:37:22,239 --> 00:37:27,120
Speaker 1: it's not just the external expression of how artistic you are,

653
00:37:27,239 --> 00:37:30,279
Speaker 1: but even your heart has been impacted by all these

654
00:37:30,320 --> 00:37:34,279
Speaker 1: other stories, philosophies and ideas that you've heard. And I'm

655
00:37:34,320 --> 00:37:37,640
Speaker 1: hoping that that does some justice. Even that is not

656
00:37:37,719 --> 00:37:39,440
Speaker 1: all of who you are, but I'm hoping that that

657
00:37:39,480 --> 00:37:42,880
Speaker 1: there's some justice into people understanding who you are. I

658
00:37:42,920 --> 00:37:46,120
Speaker 1: think having all these experiences and being so many places

659
00:37:46,120 --> 00:37:49,719
Speaker 1: and meeting people of all different cultures, it's given us

660
00:37:50,520 --> 00:37:54,560
Speaker 1: a heightened sense of empathy and compassion for being a

661
00:37:54,640 --> 00:37:59,279
Speaker 1: human being, and a sense of understanding that somebody who

662
00:37:59,280 --> 00:38:01,760
Speaker 1: grew up in one place wouldn't have. Yeah, and obviously

663
00:38:01,760 --> 00:38:05,040
Speaker 1: that's what Raquel is saying, Like your experiences of being

664
00:38:05,040 --> 00:38:07,040
Speaker 1: able to connect with so many different hearts and so

665
00:38:07,080 --> 00:38:10,040
Speaker 1: many different minds, and you've lived across so many different

666
00:38:10,040 --> 00:38:12,279
Speaker 1: places that you've you've got to experience a lot of

667
00:38:12,280 --> 00:38:15,239
Speaker 1: different cultures. And that's what you were saying earlier that

668
00:38:15,320 --> 00:38:17,239
Speaker 1: you were like, well, some people would call that privileged,

669
00:38:17,719 --> 00:38:21,000
Speaker 1: but actually you've turned your privilege into purpose and into

670
00:38:21,040 --> 00:38:24,680
Speaker 1: service and connecting with people. Like yes, like you said,

671
00:38:24,680 --> 00:38:27,640
Speaker 1: you could be privileged that you've got to travel, But

672
00:38:27,880 --> 00:38:31,719
Speaker 1: traveling hasn't made you more eager to travel. It's made

673
00:38:31,719 --> 00:38:34,000
Speaker 1: you more eager to love and serve and try and

674
00:38:34,080 --> 00:38:37,680
Speaker 1: help people. If that feels right, Yeah, it feels like

675
00:38:37,960 --> 00:38:41,799
Speaker 1: well put, yeah, your your experiences have just they haven't

676
00:38:41,840 --> 00:38:44,200
Speaker 1: made you more hungry to have more experiences and see

677
00:38:44,280 --> 00:38:47,120
Speaker 1: more places. It's like, actually, it's helped us connect with

678
00:38:47,320 --> 00:38:49,640
Speaker 1: each human that we meet and want them to feel

679
00:38:49,640 --> 00:38:51,640
Speaker 1: a certain way. What have I not asked you? Or

680
00:38:51,680 --> 00:38:54,480
Speaker 1: what have you not spoken about today? That's on your heart,

681
00:38:54,520 --> 00:38:56,200
Speaker 1: that's in your mind, and you both like, Jay, I

682
00:38:56,239 --> 00:38:57,960
Speaker 1: have to share this today. I have to tell your

683
00:38:58,360 --> 00:39:00,600
Speaker 1: community or if there is an you may say, yeah,

684
00:39:00,640 --> 00:39:02,560
Speaker 1: there's nothing you've asked us, But I want to make

685
00:39:02,560 --> 00:39:04,840
Speaker 1: sure that because your friends and people I care about,

686
00:39:05,120 --> 00:39:06,560
Speaker 1: I want to make sure you feel you've had a

687
00:39:06,640 --> 00:39:09,200
Speaker 1: chance to share your heart. I don't know, I feel

688
00:39:09,200 --> 00:39:11,399
Speaker 1: like we talked about so much good. I mean, if

689
00:39:11,400 --> 00:39:14,600
Speaker 1: you feel happy and satisfied with everything we've talked about,

690
00:39:14,680 --> 00:39:17,520
Speaker 1: that makes me feel good because I just, you know,

691
00:39:18,160 --> 00:39:21,400
Speaker 1: I just wanted everyone, and I'm grateful you trusted me,

692
00:39:21,440 --> 00:39:25,440
Speaker 1: but I wanted everyone to just see just how intelligent, thoughtful,

693
00:39:25,800 --> 00:39:29,439
Speaker 1: masterful you both are in so many ways. And yeah,

694
00:39:29,480 --> 00:39:31,479
Speaker 1: I mean, I'm honored to call you guys a friend

695
00:39:31,520 --> 00:39:34,760
Speaker 1: honestly because it's likewise. I mean, we're We're so honored

696
00:39:34,800 --> 00:39:37,279
Speaker 1: to be on this podcast. I'm so honored to hear

697
00:39:37,280 --> 00:39:40,000
Speaker 1: that from both of you because I also think the

698
00:39:40,080 --> 00:39:43,880
Speaker 1: same of you that you know, you're known for being

699
00:39:46,040 --> 00:39:51,320
Speaker 1: incredible like masters in music and in fashion and in taste,

700
00:39:51,440 --> 00:39:55,160
Speaker 1: but you're using that platform for purpose for reasons like that.

701
00:39:55,200 --> 00:39:57,680
Speaker 1: To me is it's the same trade, you know, like

702
00:39:57,719 --> 00:39:59,520
Speaker 1: I'm trying to take. So I'm trying to take what

703
00:39:59,560 --> 00:40:02,200
Speaker 1: I've learned and from my teachers, and I'm trying to

704
00:40:02,200 --> 00:40:06,200
Speaker 1: share it globally, and you're doing something that's globally recognized.

705
00:40:06,239 --> 00:40:08,919
Speaker 1: But you're trying to elevate that, and I think that's

706
00:40:08,920 --> 00:40:12,880
Speaker 1: what is so beautiful to see, but also how thoughtful

707
00:40:12,960 --> 00:40:16,360
Speaker 1: and deep your research is in reading. I think you know,

708
00:40:16,400 --> 00:40:20,520
Speaker 1: I think people often think that whatever word you use

709
00:40:20,560 --> 00:40:22,080
Speaker 1: in Raquel, and I felt the same way, whether you

710
00:40:22,160 --> 00:40:24,160
Speaker 1: use the word influence or whatever whatever that word is, like,

711
00:40:24,719 --> 00:40:26,680
Speaker 1: you often just think that people don't they're not reading,

712
00:40:26,719 --> 00:40:28,759
Speaker 1: they're not thinking, they're not learning, And it's like, but

713
00:40:28,880 --> 00:40:30,719
Speaker 1: both of you are. I know the events we all

714
00:40:30,760 --> 00:40:33,879
Speaker 1: go to together, we're always learning from other people, and

715
00:40:34,320 --> 00:40:36,360
Speaker 1: you know, I think there's there's so much there. So

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00:40:36,400 --> 00:40:38,040
Speaker 1: I thank you both from the bottom of my heart

717
00:40:38,040 --> 00:40:40,520
Speaker 1: for trusting me for being in my life. I thank

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00:40:40,640 --> 00:40:44,000
Speaker 1: Raquel for bringing us together and surprising us all today

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00:40:44,360 --> 00:40:48,880
Speaker 1: and also also creating that added piece of depth that

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00:40:48,960 --> 00:40:52,080
Speaker 1: we all get to uncover. But I hope we get

721
00:40:52,120 --> 00:40:55,640
Speaker 1: to have there we go. I hope you get I

722
00:40:55,640 --> 00:40:58,120
Speaker 1: hope you all get to have many more of these conversations.

723
00:40:58,560 --> 00:41:00,239
Speaker 1: I hope you will come back on the part cast

724
00:41:00,280 --> 00:41:03,560
Speaker 1: in the future. I hope that Simmy Hayes Beauty as

725
00:41:03,960 --> 00:41:09,680
Speaker 1: the most incredible and successful first twelve months and beyond.

726
00:41:08,760 --> 00:41:11,920
Speaker 1: Thank you, and I hope that you keep serving and

727
00:41:11,960 --> 00:41:14,480
Speaker 1: making a difference to everything you do. You both lights

728
00:41:14,480 --> 00:41:17,160
Speaker 1: in this world and you're making such an impact through

729
00:41:17,200 --> 00:41:20,800
Speaker 1: everything you touch. And I'm fully behind the fundraises. However

730
00:41:20,840 --> 00:41:22,600
Speaker 1: I can get involved, please let me know. I'd love

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00:41:22,640 --> 00:41:24,160
Speaker 1: to be a part of it as well. So thank

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00:41:24,200 --> 00:41:26,799
Speaker 1: you so so much for having us. Yeah, thank you guys,

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00:41:26,880 --> 00:41:29,279
Speaker 1: and thank you everyone who's listening. Yes, thank you to

734
00:41:29,320 --> 00:41:32,920
Speaker 1: everyone has been listening down the podcast. They have they

735
00:41:33,040 --> 00:41:37,399
Speaker 1: made it, Simmy and please love you. We do. Yeah,

736
00:41:37,560 --> 00:41:39,440
Speaker 1: tell you, tell them, you tell them that you love them.

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00:41:39,440 --> 00:41:41,320
Speaker 1: That would be in a lot more, but no, I

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00:41:41,360 --> 00:41:43,080
Speaker 1: want to thank you everyone who's been listening and watching.

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00:41:43,160 --> 00:41:44,839
Speaker 1: I know you made it this far because you're an

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00:41:44,840 --> 00:41:48,480
Speaker 1: amazing community. Please anything that Simmy and a shared that

741
00:41:48,560 --> 00:41:50,600
Speaker 1: stood out to you, that resonated with you, I'd love

742
00:41:50,640 --> 00:41:52,960
Speaker 1: you to tag them on Instagram and post it. I

743
00:41:52,960 --> 00:41:55,600
Speaker 1: want them to feel the love from this episode. So

744
00:41:55,760 --> 00:41:57,600
Speaker 1: if you love me, if you love on purpose, and

745
00:41:57,640 --> 00:42:00,839
Speaker 1: you loved anything they said today, please share that tagged them.

746
00:42:00,840 --> 00:42:03,760
Speaker 1: I want them to see what resonated with you. Because

747
00:42:04,320 --> 00:42:06,719
Speaker 1: they've been so kind to us today and opening up

748
00:42:06,760 --> 00:42:09,520
Speaker 1: and sharing their story and sharing their journey. I want

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00:42:09,520 --> 00:42:11,200
Speaker 1: them to know what an impact I had on your life.

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Speaker 1: So thank you everyone for listening and watching, and we'll

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Speaker 1: be back soon

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